Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Why do teenagers prefer to be out more than at home?

Teenagers are similar to adulthood, they like to hangout more with their friends more than sit with their family, they feel their selves like they are more better to be out of home always. They prefer to be in cinemas, roaming around.
It is an age where they feel more secured to be with friends, more than family, because when they reach this age, the family are more strict, not like when they are small, and the teenagers want to go walk around and not to sit at home.
If they always sit at home they will always be alone, and not interact with other people, this will affect them even when they grow up. Cause at this age they will still have energy which they need to take out in a right way, like an active teenager who always fights hard, can go to karate, learn karate, and be strong and how to stable when someone comes to fight him. They can go to classes outside school hours, to play together, hangout, do what they want to do to feel they are free a bit, not alot of chains are around them.
Finally, the teenagers need their families to sit with them, and talk with them to help them how to see the world outside when they grow up, not to always shout at them, and not to always put more chains with them, because if many chains are around them, then they will burst and do things which they are not accepted either by the community or the family or religion also. The teens need someone to talk to them slowly and to shout at them, and understand what they want, not to always force the teen to do things what they dont want, cause that will not let them have confidence on their selves, and also they will be going the other way, they will start to hide things, and not speak, they will always prefer to be with their friends, cause their family dont want to listen to them.